On several occasions, it seemed to me that the word was used in a sort of derogatory manner that was also insinuating that I am in fact “sanguine.” So I realized that I didn’t know what this really means, and I should find out before I decide if it is true or not.
Sanguine: “cheerfully optimistic,
hopeful, or confident” -dictionary.com
But by the grace of God I am what I am,
and his grace toward me was not in vain.”
1 Corinthians 15:10
I am what I am…and if it is sanguine, then so be it!
Anyway, this kind of misunderstanding is what happens whenever we assume we understand what people are really trying to say. I could have nursed some feeling that I was being called stupid or shallow or something…and then just go with that belief as I filter all other interactions with this person. But that wouldn’t be beneficial to anyone.
I’m glad I just faced this head on and figured it out. That’s the best way to handle any sort of misunderstanding. Just get it figured out and move on…it’s so much better than holding onto junk.
Just a thought…I hope you have a sanguine attitude this fine day!